Post-Adoption Depression: Side Effects of a Happy Event

Although it's not as well documented as postpartum depression, post-adoption depression syndrome (PADS) is not uncommon: In a 2012 study from Purdue University, between 18 and 26 percent of adoptive mothers (depending on the screening scale) reported depressive symptoms within the first year of bringing home a new baby or child. (Rates for the small number of adoptive fathers also surveyed were similar.)

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10 Myths about the Mental Health of New Moms

You know the saying, “You can never have too much of a good thing?” Yeah, I’m not a fan of that one, because too much of pretty much anything isn’t good. And as a new or expectant mom, this is particularly true when it comes to information. And while that’s great for many things, it can also make it very difficult to separate the good information from the bad. And when bad information circulates without correction, some potentially harmful myths can seem to turn into facts.

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Relationship Expectations

Relationships are both a blessing and can be increasable hard. And one element that complicates relationships is that they are all so different.  What works in one relationship doesn’t work in another. How I interaction in this one doesn’t work in the other. It’s helpful to remember that we are complex as humans and so relationships also have a complexity to them.  But when I notice I’m continually hurt, disappointed or confused in a relationship, I find that one question seems to be incredibly helpful in assessment process.

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Parenting Medically Complex Children

Nothing can fully prepare you for the day you receive a medical diagnosis for your child. I still remember ours as if it were yesterday. I was sitting in a room, excited to see my baby on the ultrasound screen, when the sonographer left the room to get the Medical Director of the SSM Health St. Louis Fetal Care Institute to come in and look at our scan, I felt a pang of fear.

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